In 33 months trying to conceive my oldest son, my greatest revelation was that it takes more to make a baby than just a man and a woman deciding they’re ready. It takes three: a man, a woman, and God. This revelation was the moment I began to make peace with infertility and the moment I realized my faith and infertility journeys had become intertwined. It Takes Three recounts my non-ART journey to conceive through male factor infertility, MTHFR, lupus anticoagulant antibody, deployment, miscarriage, and near-divorce. I share everything infertility taught me about faith, health, marriage, friendships, and parenting, and why I consider it to be the best struggle I never chose.